How to earn the respect of others
(from printed archives, unattributed)
Having a good reputation is an indispensable factor in succeeding at work. People trust top performers, and no one likes to do business with someone they don’t respect. The Bible says, “A good name is more desirable than great riches.” In other words, your self worth is more important than your net worth.
The common mistake most people make is thinking that reputation is a matter of “image.” So they worry themselves with questions like, “How do I look?” or “Did I say the right thing?” To build a long-term good reputation, you must focus on your character, not your image. Respect must be earned. The book of Proverbs in the Bible identifies seven character qualities found in people who are respected by others.
- Respect is earned through common sense. Knowing and doing right, and common sense will fill you with living energy (Pr. 3:21). Men with common sense are admired as counselors.
- Respect is earned through integrity. Respected people do not tell lies (17:7). The man of integrity walks securely, but he who takes crooked paths will be found out (10:9).
- Respect is earned through humility. Arrogance will bring your downfall, but if you are humble, you will be respected (29:23). Anyone who listens to correction is respected (13:18).
- Respect is earned through dependability. Like clouds and winds without rain is a man who boasts without gifts he does not give (25:15) He who keeps an oath even when it hurts will never be shaken (Ps. 15:4-5)
- Respect is earned through having priorities. If your goals are good, you will be respected (11:27). You will earn the trust and respect of others if you work for good (14:22)
- Respect is earned through generosity. He who gives generously to the needy and shows kindness will be powerful and respected (Ps. 112:9).
- Respect is earned by putting God first in your life. If you want favor both with God and man, and a reputation for good judgment and common sense, then trust the Lord completely. In everything you do, put God first, and he will direct you and crown your efforts with success (3:4-6).
